Feb
7
Move out from your comfort zone or move within your comfort zone to get over a failed relationship?
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abc123 asked:
My ex broke up with me 2 months ago. He was a colleague and working very closely with each other for 2 years and he moved out to go to Phuket as his contract finished. We have lived in a small island (Maldives) a very luxury ‘A-list resort’. Everything reminds me of him, whether in the office or outside. It was not the best relationship as I have loved him more than he loved me. He was one of the bosses but I was not directly reporting to him. The break up affected me a lot and I cannot perform my job well and I end up thinking about him all the time, jealous that he is very happy with his new job and new girl and I was left in the island having no other outlet, noway to meet new people, no way to fill up the loneliness (I dont sleep with just anyone else or do casual sex) I miss being in a relationship and left alone in this island makes it difficult to move on and forget him. I recently got promoted to and will be one of the bosses but I also signed a contract in Phuket, same luxury
The offer was the same position but lesser money in Phuket. But quality of life there is much better than Maldives since more place to go, more activities that can be engaged in, more people to meet. Or is it better to stay in current employer and focus more on career development but is heartbroken.
I got the two best luxury resorts to work for on each hand but can only choose to work for one. Which should I choose?
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My ex broke up with me 2 months ago. He was a colleague and working very closely with each other for 2 years and he moved out to go to Phuket as his contract finished. We have lived in a small island (Maldives) a very luxury ‘A-list resort’. Everything reminds me of him, whether in the office or outside. It was not the best relationship as I have loved him more than he loved me. He was one of the bosses but I was not directly reporting to him. The break up affected me a lot and I cannot perform my job well and I end up thinking about him all the time, jealous that he is very happy with his new job and new girl and I was left in the island having no other outlet, noway to meet new people, no way to fill up the loneliness (I dont sleep with just anyone else or do casual sex) I miss being in a relationship and left alone in this island makes it difficult to move on and forget him. I recently got promoted to and will be one of the bosses but I also signed a contract in Phuket, same luxury
The offer was the same position but lesser money in Phuket. But quality of life there is much better than Maldives since more place to go, more activities that can be engaged in, more people to meet. Or is it better to stay in current employer and focus more on career development but is heartbroken.
I got the two best luxury resorts to work for on each hand but can only choose to work for one. Which should I choose?
Create a video blog